Journeying With Wisdom

Traveling solo is one of the most liberating experiences, but sometimes it comes with unexpected challenges. My recent trip to Dubai—my first solo adventure after becoming a widow—was a mix of dazzling sights and uncomfortable encounters. I wasn’t prepared for how direct some individuals could be, particularly tour guides and taxi drivers. Three times, I was directly propositioned with offers to “take care of me.” Disgusted doesn’t even cover how I felt.

While Dubai is known for being one of the safest cities in the world, I couldn’t shake the feeling of being an open target. The questions started innocently enough: “Are you here alone? How old are you? Do you have children?” But answering honestly, as I’m naturally inclined to do, led to uncomfortable and invasive exchanges.

Looking back, I’ve asked myself: Did I unintentionally signal that I needed “help”? The truth is, being polite or friendly should never be mistaken as an invitation for more. It was an eye-opening experience, and one I think all solo travelers should prepare for.

How to feel safe as a woman traveling solo in Dubai.

So, here are some takeaways from my trip that might help you avoid similar discomfort:

1. Don’t Feel Obligated to Answer Personal Questions

If someone asks about your family or age, don’t feel pressured to be truthful or detailed. A simple “I prefer to keep my personal life private” or even changing the topic can save you from unwanted attention.

2. Stay Professional and Neutral

Even if the person is friendly, keep your responses courteous but business-like. It’s okay to set a clear boundary if the conversation feels too personal.

3. Use Technology to Your Advantage

Apps like Careem or Uber are lifesavers. They not only track your ride but also minimize direct interaction with drivers.

4. Choose Well-Vetted Services

Opt for reputable tour operators with glowing reviews. Research beforehand to ensure professionalism.

5. Trust Your Instincts

If someone makes you uncomfortable, listen to your gut. Walk away, or in extreme cases, seek help from authorities or your hotel.

Why I’m Sharing This

While Dubai is generally known for its safety and welcoming atmosphere, similar encounters with inappropriate behavior can unfortunately occur in any city, especially for solo travelers. This behavior is not representative of the culture or the majority of people in Dubai, but some individuals may misinterpret us as more approachable for personal advances.

In Dubai, social norms are influenced by both traditional Emirati values and the diverse expatriate population. While professionalism is expected in service roles like tour guides and taxi drivers, there are isolated cases where boundaries are crossed.

No one deserves to feel targeted while exploring the world. Being a solo traveler doesn’t make us vulnerable—it makes us brave. Yet, bravery comes with the wisdom of preparation. I hope my experience helps others feel more prepared and confident in navigating the unexpected.

Let’s keep encouraging one another to see the world, but with our eyes wide open.